the Wednesday hodgepodge & Currently

 

Happy Wednesday, friends! I'm here with Joyce again today for the weekly hodgepodge...this is a post that I dearly love; thank you, Joyce, for your inspiring and thought provoking questions each and every week! I'll jump right in! 

1. What's something you find that is extremely difficult that most people would say is simple? Why am I struggling with this question? My mind is drawing a complete blank. I consulted Chat GPT, and this is what popped up:

"You seem to be someone who loves deeply—your sons, your family, your faith, your writing, your relationship, the people around you. People who care that much often carry a quiet tendency to keep looking ahead: the next responsibility, the next prayer, the next thing to fix, the next person to encourage. The simple thing is sitting in a good moment and saying, "This is enough for today." 

Simple doesn't mean easy. 

It can be surprisingly difficult to receive joy without immediately turning it into gratitude, a lesson, a plan, a memory to preserve, or a worry about how long it will last. 

A sunset with your guy. A family dinner. A peaceful morning with a book. A laugh with your sons.

Sometimes the hardest thing is not creating, fixing, teaching, helping, or preparing. 

Sometimes it's simply being there.

And allowing yourself to enjoy it."

Well, alrighty then. Why does this sum me up so well? 

2. "And so with the sunshine and the great bursts of leaves growing on the trees, just as things grow fast in movies, I had that familiar conviction that life was beginning over again with the summer." —F. Scott Fitzgerald

Does the season of summer make you feel this way? Elaborate. I do feel this way about summer! I just feel like there is something magical about the days getting longer, the air getting warmer, and the prospect of sitting by a body of water and chatting with a friend or a significant other. I thoroughly enjoyed doing this with Marilyn on Monday! I love listening to music that screams summer and have playlists that I like to listen to during this season. I also love sunsets more at this time of year; they seem move vivid and spectacular than ever before. I love eating outside if it's not too hot and muggy, and bonus points for twinkling lights and great ambiance. I always loved date nights at this time of year, so I'm glad to have that chance this year with Chris. 

3. Pickles. Love them or no thank you? What's your favorite type of pickle? What's something you eat that definitely needs a pickle included? I love pickles! I'm a purist and prefer the dill variety. I always enjoy a pickle with a sandwich or with chicken salad and crackers. 

4. Tis the season...do you know any June brides? Are there any weddings on your summer calendar? What's your favorite movie wedding? I don't know any June brides, but a friend of mine has a daughter getting married this summer in August. I'm excited about going to this! I got the invitation in the mail recently, and it was addressed to me and Chris. I loved that! I don't know what my favorite movie wedding is...I know what it used to be, but that is no longer the case. 

5. June 1st was National Say Something Nice Day...say something nice here. I'm going to quote a line from Steel Magnolias...maybe you'll recognize this.

"I'm pleasant! Damnit! I saw Drum Eatenton this morning at the Piggly Wiggly, and I smiled at the son of a bitch before I could help myself!"

Do you remember that quote? In that movie, Ouiser and Drum had a love/hate relationship; mostly it was hate. Ha! The reason I shared this quote is because I had such a moment last weekend; Jonah and I were talking and I sincerely asked him how his dad is doing. I haven't heard anyone say anything about him in a while, and I was genuinely curious, but also I said it in a nice way and with no agenda. I just made myself laugh at this statement, but ever since he's been remarried, things have been so peaceful! I don't say this lightly. 

I also really liked this one that I saw when I was searching for her exact quote.

6. Insert your own random thought here. And with this last thought, I'll transition over to Currently with Amy.

This month I'm currently: 

enjoying

being able to sit by/in a pool!

I'm currently wearing

pool attire and sunscreen! 

I'm currently watching a few things...I alternate between movies and shows. I want to start watching Mad About You! I'm watching a couple of shows that I don't care about, so I may quit them. 

I'm currently listening to a Ben Rector radio playlist as I write. I'm still listening to Ella Langley and Dandelion Radio on Spotify

I'm buying a few different things...one I'll share on Friday, so stay tuned. I bought some dresses recently that were on clearance...I'm crossing my fingers that they work! I need to buy a few wardrobe essentials that I'm missing. I need some casual summer clothing the most right now. 

Thanks for reading my blog today, friends! I'm excited to read your answers to all of these prompts. I'll see you back here tomorrow! Love to all. 

Jenn 

Fashion Files, poolside edition

 

Happy Tuesday, friends! I'm linking up with Amy and Marsha today for Fashion Files. I'm talking pool fashion today, from shoes to hats and everything in between. 

This was me headed to Marilyn's pool yesterday! We spent a glorious morning floating and talking in her pool. It's HOT here this week, so I couldn't sit out for long at all before needing to get in the water. 

Here's a gauzy swimsuit coverup that is similar to what I'm wearing; I can't find the actual one that I purchased above a few years ago. I might order this one for myself to go with other swimsuits that I have; I really like the apricot colored one pictured in the link.  

Here are the Reef metallic platform sandals that I love. I bought them to wear out and also with my swimsuit and coverup. I like to wear these at the pool since the bottom is cork; several years ago I had an unfortunate accident in the shoes I was wearing at the pool one day. They were wet and slick bottomed, my feet were were, and I was slipping and sliding all over the place trying to get back to my chair. 

I cannot believe I'm putting this out into the world, but alas, here I am. I really love this swimsuit! After wearing it for a few hours in the pool, it held its shape and was really comfortable. It's a tankini; the bottoms are separate, which I love. It's also easier to get on and off when you're wet! 

Here's the Amazon swimsuit; I plan on ordering two more in pink, and then a solid black one. I love the crisscross straps in the back, and that it comes with full coverage. 

Marilyn and I kind of got a kick out of us both wearing earrings and necklaces at the pool. We also both had on hats. I sent a picture of me in a hat to Chris yesterday at one point, and he was confused why I had one on if I wanted sun; I quickly explained that I want sun on my legs and arms, NOT my face. I had on lots of sunscreen on my face and I wear lipstick at the pool to protect my lips from the sun's powerful rays. Have you ever had a sunburn on your lips? It's terrible. 

Do you have a pool or beach bag? Here's a glimpse at the one I always carry. Not pictured is the lunch bag I took when I went to Marilyn's pool yesterday. I love this bag that I got at Marshall's several years ago; it was inexpensive, but I love that it sits like this when you put it down. It makes it the perfect accompaniment! I'll do a separate post on another day about beach bag essentials since it's been a few years. 

And that's my day at the pool! What do you wear to the beach or pool? What kind of swimsuit do you prefer? I'd love to hear from you! Thanks for reading today, friends. Love to all!

Jenn 

weekending

Happy Monday, friends! How was your weekend? Mine flew by! I'm linking up with Holly and Sarah for today's blog post. 

A lot of my weekend was spent watching this little cutie for my friend, Kat. Isn't he handsome? His name is Pac...as in Tupac, the deceased rap artist. I died laughing when she told me this! I sent this picture to Kat, which I think she appreciated. Kat is a friend from work! It's so strange to think about how these people I'm so close to now are ones I didn't even know this time last year. For that matter, I didn't know Chris yet this time last year! I'll never stop saying how strange life can be, and that I have all these new people in it because of circumstances that have transpired. I'm not complaining, I promise! 

The actual day of Friday was pretty low key. I read a book most of the day, in between doing things around my house. Chris took me to dinner at Lost Pizza that night, then we came back here and watched a movie. I can't remember which one, though...

I made it to the Farmer's Market this weekend! Isn't this place adorable? I even ran into an old friend while we were there, so it was great to catch up with her and her daughters, and to get to introduce them to Chris. 

I didn't buy anything this go 'round. It's a little too early still to be buying seasonal vegetables. I'd like to go back in a few weeks and buy some tomatoes and enjoy them on white bread with mayonnaise, salt, and pepper. Have you ever eaten a tomato sandwich? It's good with bacon and lettuce too, but it's delicious with just that one ingredient. 

On the same property of the farmer's market is this nursery with two gift shops...again, I didn't buy anything, but it's fun to browse. Their plants are spectacular! I only wish I didn't kill them. The other major event of the day was getting locked out of Kat's house. I don't know if the dog somehow locked her back door or if I did it, but we had to call a locksmith. Thankfully, Chris knows people, because of his line of work, and one of his customers came out and only charged a minimal fee. Locksmiths usually charge anywhere from $150-$200, especially on a Saturday! We didn't pay even half that. Kat and I were in constant communication during this time, so I was relieved to let her know when I was inside her house again. 

We grabbed some of our favorite ice cream before making our way back to my house to cool off. It warmed up quickly! 

 

We got really ambitious and while we were out that morning, got the ingredients to make our own steamed and pan seared gyoza! We went to an international market to pick up what we needed; from start to finish, this took one hour. I love that Chris loves to cook! It's fun to do that together. I don't know that we'll do this very often, but it was fun to do and it was delicious! 

This means that we had breakfast by nine, and dinner by four. A couple of hours later, he took me to get a soft serve margarita, and we had chips and dips at the bar. It was so good! The rest of the weekend was low key. We went out for lunch on Sunday, then grocery shopped together. I got some things for this week, one of which was a rotisserie chicken and the ingredients to make my mom's chicken salad. That sounded good to me to have for lunch this week, especially while I'm sitting by the pool! I hope to do that two or three days this week, so here's to hoping! I'm also dog sitting again next weekend...for three families. Ha! Two of them have pools, so my weekend will be spent poolside as well. I'm great with this! 

What did you do that you loved this weekend? I'd love to hear from you! Thanks for being here to read my blog, friends. I'll see you back here tomorrow; love to all! 

Jenn 

Share 4 Somethings -- May 2026

 

Happy Saturday, friends! I'm so glad you're here today; thanks for linking up with me again this month! Today we're here to talk about something we loved, something that sustained us, something we're carrying forward from this month to the next, and something we're making space for. I'll jump right in!

This month I loved...

...reminders like this...

...thoughtful gifts like this mug for Mother's Day and Teacher's Appreciation week...

...visiting the new Barnes & Noble in town...

...the calendar being flipped to May...

...all the beautiful foliage that looked so green and vibrant after rain...

...seeing my sons outside enjoying life with friends on the back porch without a phone in sight. I love these people and consider several of them bonus kids! My OG bonus kid Alex is pictured back there, too, in the black hat. I love him and am always so happy to see him when he comes around!

Something that sustained me...

...realizations like this one above...

...prayers like this...

...and reminders like this. All of these things sustained me this month, along with really good conversation with lots of people. 

Something I'm carrying forward from this month to next...

I'm carrying forward moments like these captured above. It's almost a new month, and I am ready for some new memories! I consider each weekend a new opportunity to do new things with my guy, and he's always up for whatever I want to do. I won't see him next weekend; he is hoping to have one of his motorcycles ready to race by then, and he'll be off in Steele, Alabama. I'd hoped to go with him, but I'm dog sitting. 

Something I'm making space for...

I'm making more space for daily reading! Most of you know me really well, and how much I've missed reading. My brain took an almost two year hiatus on this favorite hobby, but your girl is back and getting better than ever. This book is amazing, by the way. 

I'm making more space for lunch dates with friends and for dining al fresco while I can. It'll be way too hot before long, so I'm basking in the moments for now. 

I'm making space for intentional time spent getting things done before work starts back. Also, I have a little life update! I had applied back in the early spring to work at our summer learning camp (old fashioned summer school) this year, but I didn't think I'd gotten the job, because I never heard from HR. Then this week, I got the email! So I have two weeks off at the beginning of the summer, then will have four weeks of summer learning camp (only Monday-Thursday), then I'll have an additional two weeks off at the end before returning back to work at the end of July. I'm grateful for this opportunity, because I didn't really know how I was going to make it without getting a paycheck...I get monthly alimony, but that doesn't cover all of my bills. 

Once again, I have to sing God's praises, because never once has He let me down. Things always turn out, no matter on the timing or how it might look different. Additionally, my other side hustle is helping friends out with their dogs while they vacation. Any extra money I make will go directly to my savings account! You know me...I'm an open book here, and I always hope that a little part of my story encourages someone else on their own journey in life. 

Thanks for being here to read and link up today! I can't wait to read all of your answers to the prompts over the next few days. I'll see you back here on Monday. Love to all!

Jenn 

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Friday Favorites, 5.29.2026.

 

Happy Friday, friends! How was your week? Mine was great! This was my first official week off from school, and I have to say...it was glorious. I have some favorites that I thought I'd talk about today...some of which you might have already seen pictures of, but it'll be okay. 

Social media trends are always a favorite for me...I found this one yesterday on Instagram and added my pictures to jump on the bandwagon. 

These two images above were some of my favorites from the interwebs this week. I'm starting to realize some things in my life to be true, and this week I've had a couple of eye opening revelations about being the best version of myself. 

Memorial day was always one of Dad's favorite holidays...and this picture will forever be one of my favorites of him. He was 82 in this picture; this was us at the Veteran's cemetery for a Memorial day tribute when my sons were little...and this is his final resting place today. 

Years and years ago, Scripture writing was one of my favorite ways to have quiet time. I took a break from it for several years; when I saw this on my FB memories yesterday, I had the thought that I might start back up again. Now that I'm saying this out loud to you, I kind of can't wait to start and I might get a head start! I'm probably going to do the one on friendship, but in sharing this, I wondered if any of you might want to join me in this? 

Lunch with Mom and Trish yesterday was a favorite! I got an order of pan seared gyoza. These were delicious! I sent Chris this picture and told him that I felt like I was cheating on him, eating this without him. He told me I was fired as his girlfriend. 

While I waited on Mom and Trish yesterday, I sat in my car and read. I took this picture while I waited; this is one of my favorite areas in town and just so happens to be Marilyn's new community in which she lives. I was talking to her as I sat there for a good while; I miss her! She's in Savannah, Georgia for her daughter's college graduation. 

I only have two outfits to share this week! It's been so gross and rainy here...I'm ready for sunny skies once again. After tomorrow, it clears up a good bit. 

It was a favorite sitting here with my friend Andrea on Wednesday; we sat there for over three hours catching up on all of life! 

This book might be a favorite of summer! It's so, so good. Have you read it yet? 

These images that Chat GPT generates of you based on what it knows about you is a favorite and kind of spot on, truth be told. 

Being home and getting to snuggle has been their favorite this week! 

And finally, spending a lot of quality time with this one all week has been a favorite. I love him so much and am grateful that we found each other. Our relationship has been nowhere near perfect, but we are willing to fight for what we have and to keep pressing on. I have high hopes of being remarried someday, and I can genuinely see Chris being the one. He loves me so very well; he loves my sons, and he is such a kind and gentle soul. We were watching a show at one point this week, and he told me didn't think he could keep watching it because of all the violence. I think I fell a little deeper in love with him when he said this. I thank God for this sweet man every single day. 

I didn't mean to say all that, but I think I'll leave it out there. It feels like a great way to wrap up this post. Thanks for being here to read and encourage! In case you need a reminder, tomorrow is the May edition of Share 4 Somethings; I'll see you back here then! Love to all. 

Jenn