Tuesday, May 6, 2025

Louisville (bloggers trip 2025)




Happy Tuesday, friends! I wanted to spend today talking about the epic bloggers trip I went on last weekend. I have a lot of pictures, so I'll try to be sparing with the words; I'll jump right in!


Marilyn, Tanya, Joanne, Amy, and Maria and I met in Louisville last weekend on Friday afternoon. Mar and I left that morning and stopped to pick up Tanya along the way; our first stop was lunch at Cava!



It felt great to be reunited! We got back on the road shortly after this, and were excited to make it to Amy and Joanne at the Air BNB. Maria was the last to arrive, thanks to traffic on her drive, but the last four of us arrived within in an hour of each other. 







The Air BNB that Marilyn picked for us was so charming and quaint! I loved the decor and special touches of things like the books in the fireplace. Amy and Joanne had quite the spread of food and wine waiting on us when we arrived. We sat around talking and reacquainting ourselves with each other for a long time; one thing we did that I loved was talking about the books we're currently reading and some of our favorite things, most of which were makeup related. We decided to have a late dinner eventually, but left Joanne at the house for an early bedtime; poor thing had been up since like three a.m. that morning and was exhausted.



We had dinner here, and then went back to the house for bedtime. I showered immediately and went to bed; I was up most of that night, but was ready to have some more fun on Saturday!



This was our adorable house for the weekend. 





Outfit check and breakfast chatting while we waited on the others!

 






We shopped at this cool place called Work the Metal that was a conglomeration of things for sale. As you can clearly see, we had zero fun. We all left with souvenirs, but how fun are our Derby hats! We ran into a group of women from Texas who recognized Tanya; one of them was the wife of her dentist. How funny is that?! They were fascinated that we were bloggers. 🤣 










We walked around this really cute and trendy area of Louisville; we all enjoyed seeing some of Amy's favorite spots around her town! We had cookies for lunch this day and stopped at two different spots to sample their offerings of the best cookies in the city.





I had to refuel with coffee at the first spot! My lack of sleep was catching up to me; shortly afterward we went back to the house. I laid down and took a nap for about a half hour to rest up for our fun plans that night! 




Amy arranged reservations for us at Barn 8; this was an old horse barn turned farm to table restaurant on Hermitage Farm. It was gorgeous!




This wasn't the restaurant, but an actual working barn. It's funny that on this trip, we never saw the first horse! Marilyn and I talked about that this weekend; it was ironic, actually. 







This was a beautiful place!









Cheers! We sat at the bar for cocktails while we waited; the man in the picture is the owner, and we got to meet him! He had on a jacket that looked like it was made from leaves. After dinner we did a nighttime art walk that was situated in the woods behind the barn, and thankfully we weren't murdered. It was a tiny bit creepy! 


We went back to Amy's house and then made our way back to the house for bedtime. It was a fun day! One thing I loved about this day was seeing Amy's home and meeting her husband Tom, and famous pup, Eddie Otis. He was such a good boy, but all of us women made him a little nervous. It was a bit before he warmed up to us! 




While I was on my way there Friday, I texted my ex about getting the number of John, an old friend that used to live in Memphis when I first got married. He lived here for several years before moving back to his home of Louisville; I'd lost his contact information over time, so the ex gave me his number and I reached out to him about meeting up while I was in town. He (and his lovely wife Stacy) came to pick me up early Sunday morning for breakfast. It was so good seeing them! John is one of those rare, lifelong friends who I'll always pick right back up with, no matter the time that passes or the distance we are apart. My family adopted him as their own when he lived here, so he was around for lots of birthdays and holidays; he remembers all of my sisters and their kids to this day! I think I've convinced him and Stacy to come to Memphis this summer; I'd love to show her around to all the places we used to hang out! 




They dropped me back off at the house, then we all left together to meet Amy for their brunch. We went to a fun place called Biscuit Belly, and I ordered the most delicious brown sugar Frappuccino. 








I *might* have taken home mine and Amy's glasses as souvenirs for Mar and me. 




Such a fun morning! I loved sitting outside. 


We shopped at a consignment store where I bought a new wallet and some earrings, then we went to a little boutique called A Darling State of Mind. I bought new readers while I was there, and I splurged and bought myself the most beautiful dress! It was very inexpensive considering the quality of it, and I will wear it next weekend on Mother's Day. I can't wait to show you! 





We grabbed a quick lunch at this yummy restaurant, and Amy, Mar, and I enjoyed $5 margaritas. They were delicious, and the sun felt amazing! Joanne got a lot of sun on this day and looked so healthy and tan when she left to go back home Monday morning.


We split ways after this; Amy returned to her house, and we went to the river in downtown Louisville.







I'll confess that I got a little sad at this point. My ex and I had been to this exact spot two years prior to this; we had such a great time and we sat on one of the benches for a while with his arm around me. I have a picture of him kissing my cheek in this location, and I kind of got quiet when I reminisced about that trip. I miss being married and having a constant companion. This is why I'm dating! I want to find someone to hang out with on a regular basis, and see what happens as a result. I'm too young to be alone, and truthfully, when I think about my lot in life sometimes I get really pissed off. Sorry for cursing at you, but I do this sometimes now. I'll say it again: this is why I'm dating! I am too young to be alone, and I'm only 48 years old and was not the one who wanted a divorce. 


Moving on...


For the rest of our time, we went back to the house and talked/snacked. I started to pack up and straighten up things in my little corner of the loft that Maria and I shared, and then we just sat around for the rest of the night. We finished up some food in the house, and I went to bed pretty early. Marilyn and I decided to leave a little early the next morning so that we could tour Churchill Downs, and I talked about that day on Friday's blog post. Here's a link if you want to read that. 




The car on the right is mine, and the other one belongs to Maria. To say that our weekend was merely fun is the understatement of the year! This will go down as one of the best trips I've ever been on; I can't wait to see them again next year. Thank you for reading my long recap! I'll see you back here tomorrow for Currently. Love to all!


Jenn ❤️🩷





Monday, May 5, 2025

hello Monday

 


Happy Monday, friends! How was your weekend? Mine was both fun and low key, with a mix of highs and lows, honestly. It's funny how that happens from time to time, and the power of words that people have. I let some things mess with me this weekend that were very upsetting in the moment, but I'm trying to move past. I talked to Jesus about this yesterday as I got dressed; I asked Him to help me let it go and to learn and to move on. Something I've learned is that is that the power of words is only as strong as the thoughts that are tied to it in the time that follows. When I keep remembering something, I ask the Lord to help me to let it go and move on. All I can do is pray about it on my end and to try to learn a lesson from whatever happened. 


It is what it is, right? And why do I keep saying that phrase? There is some truth in those words, and also in the popular phrase that I think was coined by Mel Robbins on Instagram: let them. If someone wants to judge me or think ill of me, let them. They'll think what they want to think and all of the endless fretting on my end won't change their minds or thoughts. All I can do is live my life for Jesus as best I can. 


These are deep thoughts for a Monday morning, friends! Let's lighten it up some and move on with the weekend. Here's what I did: 




It rained on Friday, so I enjoyed a leisurely morning at home. I finally got out and did a few things, including going to Chick Fil A for lunch. I was in Memphis for this, so I decided to call Marilyn and ask if she wanted company; she did! I stopped by her house and we hung out for a while before deciding to go to dinner and run an errand for her. 




There's an excellent Mexican restaurant in Memphis called Las Delicias that is so good; their chips are homemade and the salsa and guacamole are to die for! I might have had a margarita that was so large that I had to lay down after we got to Marilyn's house.  



Case in point! 🤣 It took a bit for it to wear off. Once it did, I went home and was in bed before ten, but I ended the night on a phone call. More about that in a minute...




Saturday morning found me getting dressed to meet up with my mom and sister that day.  We had lunch, and stopped by our favorite shop again, this time for Mom. I'm always up for doing this! 




This ribbon library never gets old!




We weren't out too long; I came home and did a few things, then changed and picked up Marilyn for our night out. We went to a new (to us) place called The Owner's Box to watch The Kentucky Derby. 




It was fun! We couldn't hear that well, but we got the gist. Had a I betted, I would have won! My pick was Sovereignty, and he won. We weren't out late, because we had church yesterday morning. 



And I sat in the lobby for church. I was a good little bit late going in, so I sat on the couch instead of walking in. I came home after church, hung out with Marilyn for a bit when she stopped by, then left for an afternoon date! I met someone at a restaurant at one thirty, and made it back home from that by six. We sat there for four hours and talked! 🤣 I met him on the app I'm on, and love that he's local to me. I had an early night after that; I had a snack for dinner, showered and washed my hair, and went to bed early. 


What did you do this weekend? I'd love to hear from you! Just a reminder that May's Currently link party will take place this Wednesday; in May we'll be talking about what we're currently loving, looking forward to, leaving behind, letting go of, and looking at. I hope you make plans to join us! Thanks for reading today, friends. Love to all! 




Friday, May 2, 2025

Friday Favorites: the Kentucky Derby edition

 


Happy Friday, friends! I hope you've had a good week! I'll recap the weekend on Monday and the rest of the Louisville trip on Tuesday, so I hope you come back for those. I thought I'd talk about what Marilyn and I did on Monday before we left Louisville to head home. The night before, Mar asked if I was in a hurry to get home, and when I said no, she asked if we could take a detour, so we did just that. We drove by The Brown Hotel first, then we made our way to Churchill Downs for a tour of the property! 




It was surreal!






I wasn't excited at all, clearly!




While Mar shopped before the tour started, I took this picture of myself with a Derby hat and sent it to some favorite people. 




Then I walked to the gift shop to look around. Bourbon is everywhere in Kentucky, and I thought this bottle was pretty. 



This building behind the white fence is where the horses come out on Derby day! I was fangirling a little bit, I won't lie. I'm not a huge fan of the Kentucky Derby, but I've watched it for years; I'm fascinated with the history and the pageantry of it all. 






We started the tour with a phenomenal eighteen minute movie on how the Derby was started, then the tour began.





I loved seeing the names of the winners from the past Derby races. 






We took turns taking pictures of each other under one of the twin spires that Churchill Downs is famous for.





And then, we got to go down to the track! We were so close that we could smell the dirt!




We guessed that this was a security team...and I shared this picture in an IG story saying that we were enjoying the sights of Louisville before we left to come back home. 🤣




One last picture of a favorite memory, then we left to drive back home! It was an amazingly fun trip, and we laughed ourselves silly the entire way back. At one point we started laughing so hard that I couldn't catch my breath, and it called for an unexpected stop at the next exit. Those are my favorite times!


What was a favorite of yours this week? I'd love to hear! Thanks for reading my blog today, friends. Love to all! 


Jenn ❤️ 




Thursday, May 1, 2025

good things from this week

 



Happy Thursday, friends! I hope you're having a good week; mine has been good. I don't understand how a week can feel both short and long at the same time, but that's how this one has felt. It's not a bad thing, and I'm not complaining, but my days have been thrown off since I came home from Louisville on Monday. I have one thing I want to talk about here today...


I have a major life update: I accepted a new job yesterday as a SPED (special education) assistant at Crosswind Elementary School! I’ll be returning to work full time on July 28, and I am beyond excited and grateful to be a Crosswind Eagle once again (I worked there as an interim from January to May of 2023), and ultimately a Collierville Dragon.


This will be my third stint in my town’s amazing school district, and the Lord gave me the perfect job that only He could have picked out, because it wasn’t what I was looking for. This will also end my time at my beloved church as the bookstore manager, a job I have loved for two years. While I’m sad to be leaving my current job, I am excited at what’s to come, and I feel like my future is looking bright.


Psalm 103:17 says that from eternity to eternity His faithful love is toward those who fear Him…and while there is nothing extraordinary or special about me, it’s all the Lord working everything out. He is the giver of every good and perfect gift (James 1:17), and He is sovereign over all things, whether lives, circumstances, jobs, illnesses, or futures. Thank you for being here for me everyday and for your outpouring of love, encouragement, and best of all, prayers. I wouldn’t be standing today if not for Jesus! Do you know Him? I’m always here if you want to talk more about this. As always, email me at allboys@gmail.com if you ever want to talk more.


I'm keeping it short and sweet today, but thanks for reading my blog today, friends! Love to all.


Jenn ❤️







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